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December 31, 2012


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...of a 365 page book. Write a good one.

Every year is like a chapter of our lives.

The object of a new year is not a celebration of a new year, nor having a new number displaying in our callendar but it is where we should have a new soul.
To sit down and think over how to improve up our lives.
Also is not a day to cry out loudly how our past year was unsuccessful and impatiently wait when it will be over, start a new, but to learn who we are and how we can move forward.

I'm not here to wish a good New Year Eve since it's not the only day which will decide how our new year will be like… however what I truly wish you guys lots of joy for every day for this year, as well for next year- regardless what is the day or what's happening. Every day is a miracle and a proof of our existence.
Smile to yourself while looking at your image reflected by mirror and don't be shy to say "I love you" to yourself.  And lots of love to all livings forms, animals and nature and less interest to material objects.
Say to yourself...

I am myself, no one else.
The most unique existence on the earth.
Like all people are on our planet.
I am not going to compare myself and my life to anyone else (and art ;) )
Every one is different and has different destiny at Personal Legend.

I will not interfere at someone else's lives, even though I think they are doing something wrong and feel to poke in. Or if that bothers me. I will not poke my nose to someone else's problems unless I'm asked.
I will focus on my life, goals and my dreams. I will not live with other people's lives but MY OWN.

I will be able to help other people once I am able to help myself. Once I helped myself and became successful with my self happines in my life, I am able to inspire other people to get help from themselves first.

I will take care of myself what I am watching, what I'm reading and being a part of. Watching a TV bad news, catastrophes and scandals with politicians will only influence me negatively. Reading dramas on internet, being interested in negativies online, focus on what negative stuff people do instead positivity- I am feeding myself with negative energy to my subconsciousness regardless if I'm agreeing with it or not. I will take care of where I'm listening, focusing on and with what I'm feeding myself.
From now, I will feed myself with inspiring, positive people who bring good actions.

I will get positively inspired by successful ones, not dwell in jealously and wait when the successful one will fail for my own sake of satisfaction.

If I judge other people, I give the right for them to judge me.
It will become an endless exchange of our judgments, opinions and agressive conversations.
It's pointless.


I am one who is responsible for my own life, Personal Legend and  the only who can make my life happy.
I am a Warrior of Light, not a greedy princess who is waiting for a knight on white horse.

I'm smiling to you guys : )

EDIT: a few words about 2013.


2013 will be a year of love. Thirteen is a number of as well what the old knowledge is trying to tell us. A lot of people fear the number, it's just a prejudice/fake belief brought by our civilization that 13 is an unlucky number and it's because people prefer to believe in fear than in love. In fact we fear to love. We have tendency to focus only on escaping and prevent bad things, events and failures to happen to us, than focusing on positive things.
That's why mostly in our west civilization we are somehow trained and even religion teaches us, is how to prevent the fear, from being bad and repel away the bad ones than teach of love love, the joy and respect to the Universe.
That's why I'm wishing to everybody to focus on what you love, not on what bothers you or on things which will ruin your dreams, love and goals. Bring it on!
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MithiorenIthere Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2013
There's so much wisdom in your words, Exileden... I'm sure you'll have a good 2013! ^_^
Teavian Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2013  Student General Artist
I'm sure this new year will be great! That was an inspiring read.
The-Purring-Teapot Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Student General Artist
Thank you very much for sharing these kind, wonderful words :heart:
Wanderkitsun3 Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
thank you for this positive journal. This is just beautiful and very well thought and definitly brightened up my day. :D
Have a happy new year :heart:
IAmTheEvy Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you for this very positive message!!
L-Archi Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Professional General Artist
Thank you for this very positiv journal. You have always inspired me over the years, or at least since I find out about DA XD Sadly it seems that there isn't enough positiv feelings for everyone on earth, no matter how hard we try to share those positives emotions. Hope 2013 will be a year of serenity and happiness to all of us :hug:
LizanaBee Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013   Traditional Artist
Thank you. I appreciate this and I am so grateful to you for posting it.

The affirmations ring so true... it was good that I saved your journal out of many to sit down and read when I had more time. 2013 will be a year of learning to love myself. Not in the narcissistic sense, but in the taking-care-of-myself sense.

I hope that you are able to freely pursue what you love and that you find much love returning to you in the process. Many thanks and lots of Light.
Narrenzauber Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013
I really, really loved your journal. It's funny. I made the decision to change my negative attitude, too. I don't want to live with that anymore and I don't want the people I love and I will meet in the future take up with that.

Spreading love and joy is great! It is a honorable action, if you don't do it to please your own ego. I guess it will be difficult to defeat my own ego, who likes to see the negative aspects of life, but I really enjoy to see the wonders of life more!

Thank you for your honest journal entry! Reading that there will be at least one more person on earth (I guess there are a lot more people like that!), who wants to be more positive and spread love and joy, makes me really, really happy!
Valkeus Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Wonderful advice and thoughts! I can especially relate to the thoughts about giving up jealousy. A few years ago I was jealous of some artists - not because they were better than me, but because they had fame and success doing art I considered shallow or low quality. Eventually I let go of my jealousy, and I started my new dA account with openness toward any art, since everyone has his or her own purpose for creating art. I feel so much happier! :D
Xydove Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Just wanna mention that I always look forward to your journals. You're a very inspiring person, not just with art. Please keep at this. : D
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